Introduction
The magnitude of sorrow that Trent Riley’s family, his girlfriend, and his best mates are going through is difficult to fathom. One night, in the weeks after Trent went missing, I found myself revisiting an online letter that struck a chord on dealing with grief, and it may resonate with some of the people trying to cope with the despair of Trent’s disappearance. Nick Cave’s The Red Hand Files are a direct one-to-one online correspondence with his loyal disciples (e-newsletter followers). And in a particular question put forward late last year, a follower from Stockholm wrote about the heart-wrenching loss of his wife and his brother. The question posed was, how does Nick go on after losing his son? [Arthur Cave tragically passed away in 2015 at age 15]. Few words can…