Many couples struggle to communicate their needs to one another. William F. Harley, Jr., in His Needs Her Needs, lists 10 common needs prevalent in marriage today: affection, sexual fulfilment, intimate conversation, recreational companionship, honesty and openness, physical attractiveness, financial support, domestic support, family commitment, and admiration. I have found that one of the things that greatly impacts the health of a marriage is unmet needs. Unfortunately, we often fail to realise that our spouses cannot guess our needs, rather they need us to articulate them. Many couples struggle to communicate their needs to one another. In my book, Conversing, I highlight some common reasons for this: Concern around how their spouse will perceive the validity of their needs. “She might think I am being unreasonable”. Difficulty in articulating needs.…