The power of change, of repair, comes not because you buy a new car, land a new job, or ditch your spouse for a new one.
It begins in the deepest recesses of your soul.
For the journey you will require nothing fancy: a pencil and paper, humility, an open heart and a will of steel.
Then …
Face yourself. It’s impossible to be genuine with others while fooling yourself. Tell yourself the truth about yourself. Unwind, dismantle your self-lies, pretensions, sophistications.
Despite your fears, you will probably not fall apart. My hunch is you’ll “fall together” and become more beautiful than you already are and can imagine.
Open up. Be more vulnerable. Let others, not all, in. Tell chosen people what terrifies you. Expose masks and façades you fear…