How Big Is This Moment?
ARE YOU facing a moment, or the moment? It’s a critical distinction we often lose sight of. When we’re facing a big decision, grappling with a change, or wondering whether to seize or pass on a new opportunity, we tend to raise the stakes on ourselves. We treat our decision as critical—as make-or-break, do-ordie. It’s the last train leaving the station! The game-winning shot in your hands! Everything seems to hang in the balance. My advice: Take a breath. Calm your emotions. Then ask yourself my simple but profound question—are you facing a moment, or the moment? I’ll give you an example. My friend Jenny Illes Wood is high up at Google, and she has built a popular program there called Own Your Career. She gives workshops on how Googlers can increase their influence,…