On May 4, Zendaya and Tom Holland kept it casual as they enjoyed a rare date night to watch an NBA playoff game in San Francisco. The secret to their success is keeping things low-key. “They’ve seen so many people in Hollywood not make it because of too much pressure and attention, and they want to avoid making that mistake,” a source tells Us of the actors, both 26, who’ve been linked since 2017. (They didn’t confirm their romance until 2021.) “After all this time, they still rarely walk the red carpet together. They also don’t share info about their [romance] on social media or talk about each other too much in interviews.” Adds the source, “The goal is to keep the spotlight off their relationship.”