TAKING YOUR SHOT
All the planning in the world can’t prepare you for the moment when you’re required to do something completely new. Whether starting a job (or quitting one to pursue a lifelong dream), beginning a new relationship, or even taking up a new sport — what’s finally required to make that commitment is a leap of faith. We fear failure. We fear the unknown. As the decisive moment approaches, the thought often comes unbidden: “Help! I don’t really know how to do this!” Yet it is our willingness to put ourselves through experiences like these that allows us to grow. In “My First Patient” (page 40), psychotherapist Lori Gottlieb describes the anxiety of her first solo experience with a real patient. Prior to this, she’d been through years of coursework, participated in role-play simulations,…