you’re invited...
We humans are social creatures, and entertaining is one of our great art forms. Just think about the word entertain. Having people over for even the simplest evening is indeed a bit of a performance. It forces us to clean the piles of mail offthe table and plump the pillows on the couch. It takes us out of our routines and makes us stop thinking about work or family worries for a few hours. Most important, throwing a party brings friends together and matchmakes new ones. I’m not much of a stickler on etiquette— and the rules keep changing. But I believe that having a party is a social contract with a few basic rules. First, the host is obligated to serve dinner or refreshments within a reasonable window. We’ve all…