The High Cost of the Actions We Don’t Take
DURING THE THIRD SEASON of HBO’s brilliant series The Sopranos, Carmela Soprano, played by Edie Falco, visits a psychiatrist. The psychiatrist pushes Carmela to recognize her accountability as the wife of murderous mob boss Tony Soprano. Here is an edited version of the exchange: Dr. Krakower: You’ll never be able to feel good about yourself, you’ll never be able to quell the feelings of guilt and shame that you talk about as long as you’re his accomplice. Carmela: You’re wrong about the accomplice part, though. Krakower: Are you sure? Carmela: All I do is make sure he’s got clean clothes in his closet, and dinner on his table. Krakower: So, enabler would be a more accurate job description for you than accomplice. My apologies. Carmela: So, you think I need to define my boundaries more clearly, keep…