Exes are exes for a reason, right? So why, then, during lockdown, is everyone reaching out to their former flames, past loves and the guy they went for two drinks with last year and never saw again? But then again, at the moment, nothing seems to make sense. In the last three weeks, I’ve heard from several exes. Each has a very different significance to me, but weirdly, all the messages were welcomed. My self-deprecation and self-esteem battles have always made me push exes away when they get back in touch. I convince myself they’re simply bored, lonely, or want attention. And I can’t tell you why my old flames have reached out right now. Perhaps during a global pandemic, they don’t want to have bad blood with anyone, least…
