‘You’re far stronger than you know’
Writer SARAH ZIEGEL, 62, married JONATHAN, 61, a government lawyer, in October 1997. They live in Richmond, Surrey, with their four sons, twins Thomas and Benjamin, 24, Hector, 21, and Marcus, 15. She is the author of Marching To A Different Beat: A Family’s Journey With Autism (Lapis Print).
On the autumn day we married at our local church, I was already dreaming of a house filled with four children. Jonathan and I had met a year before our wedding through a Guardian newspaper singles column in which he’d described himself as: ‘A professional male, 34, interested in walking, theatre and the arts.’
My own parents had divorced when I was in my teens, so I was determined that when I got married it…