Table of contents for Issue 715 in Grazia

1 MULL THIS ONE OVER WE’RE POPPING this top-handle lady bag on our ‘investments to save up for’ list. (Yes, we have one, don’t you?) £495, Mulberry (mulberry.com) 2 JOG ON! NSFW*, THESE popper joggers demand heels and a night out. *Not safe for workouts. £240, Pinko (pinko.com) 3 POWER POUT TRIED AND TESTED across 50 skin tones, Maybelline Made For All Lipsticks, £7.99, suit everyone… We love Ruby For Me and Pink For Me. 4 EARLY BLOOMER THE SECOND-SKIN polo adds a pop of print to everything. Top, £100, trousers, £209, and sandals, £209, all Maje (maje.com) 5 GOLD STANDARD BIG, BOLD AND irregular, these statement earrings caught our eye (and ended up on our ears). £18, John Lewis & Partners (johnlewis.com) 6 QUILTY PLEASURE ZIP + FUNNEL neck…

PHOTOS: ED MILES, GETTY One minute, I was deep-googling the draft of the new and improved Domestic Abuse Bill (hampered by Theresa May’s reliance on Northern Ireland’s staunchly anti-abortion DUP); next, I’m reading about a form of domestic abuse called ‘reproductive coercion’ and thinking: but that happened to me. Reproductive coercion is a relatively unknown form of abuse, in which a partner controls your reproductive choices: decides whether you use contraception, whether you get pregnant, whether you end that pregnancy. It is subtle, stealthy – it lacks the brutal, grotesque honesty of punching your partner’s lights out – but nonetheless, it’s catastrophic for anyone experiencing it. It was catastrophic for me. When I was 22 and a barmaid, I met a person our lawyers insist I refer to only as…

PHOTOS: GETTY, CAMERA PRESS, EYEVINE, I-IMAGES,TWITTER/TULIPSIDDIQ Two weeks after giving birth, Tulip Siddiq made political history last week by becoming the first woman MP to vote in Parliament without leaving her own home. After years of dithering over maternity leave arrangements, Parliament was finally prodded into action by the sight of a heavily pregnant Siddiq voting in a wheelchair when she should have been in hospital giving birth. Andrea Leadsom, Conservative leader of the House, announced a year-long trial of proxy voting – when an MP nominates someone to vote for them – just in time for this week’s big Brexit vote. Siddiq, who got fellow Labour MP Vicky Foxcroft to do the honours, tweeted a picture of herself with baby Raphael, adding, ‘Raphael and I are so grateful that…

IT’S BEEN a difficult few weeks to say the least. The flat Wes and I shared got broken into earlier this month, then I contracted a kidney infection and ended up in hospital. And then, last week, Wes and I broke up. Break-ups in the public eye are horrible, it seems like there’s always one person who tries to vilify the other. But there’s no need for it. Our relationship was based on humour, so I wanted to say something light-hearted when I announced our split. I decided to parody Gwyneth Paltrow and Chris Martin’s ‘conscious uncoupling’ statement, joking that we would continue to ‘co-parent’ our hamster Jon Snow – named after Kit Harrington’s Game Of Thrones character – and asking the public to please protect his privacy. It all…

I WAS NEVER someone who asked for more money at work. My husband Matt, on the other hand, always knew his value. We had the same experience as journalists, but for the first decade of our relationship he was generally earning £20,000 a year more than me. At the time, I was happy to assume the lower income role, consumed by a lack of confidence and a deep sense that I was lucky to simply be there. Then, four years ago, he lost his job – on the day we got the keys to our new home. And in that moment of sheer financial desperation, my role transformed into something more primal: a need to keep a roof over our heads and bring cold, hard cash to the table. I’ll…

Aqua Zumba at Virgin Active Get a little bit Strictly Come Dancing with this self-confessed Latino pool party. Easy as pie and fun as workouts come. virginactive.co.uk Deep Water Workout at London Aquatics Centre For the real fitness buffs, this class takes place in the deep end and promises to burn around 570 calories per hour. londonaquaticscentre.org Masters Swim Class at David Lloyd For those who want to improve their technique, this session puts you with people of similar abilities. davidlloyd.co.uk Ride at Swimsanity Essentially a spin class on special aqua bikes with your resistance provided by water. swimsanity.co.uk Floatfit at DW Fitness First Don’t want to get in the water? Then why not work out on the water? Expect burpees, lunges and squats on a floating mat. dwfitnessfirst.com…

ARE YOU BORED of walking into your local café/supermarket and grabbing the same sandwich every day? Have you tried most foods on the menu at Pret and know how many calories there are in an avocado and falafel flatbread? Does the chocolately coconut bite always slip itself into your bag against your will? Then may I suggest bringing your own lunch into work instead. There is something immensely satisfying about eating a lunch you have made yourself. And not only will you know exactly what’s gone into it, but it will also stop you reaching for the packet of salt ’n’ vinegar crisps winking at you from the counter. It may just slim down your cash expenditure, too. For the record, if you ate a Pret Tuna Niçoise Salad, £3.99,…

BEAUMONDE WHERE: beaumonde.co.uk A fabulous collection of brands covering everything from lighting and kitchenware to textiles, mirrors, wallpaper and furniture. CARAVANE WHERE: Coal Drops Yard, Stable St, London N1C 4AB; 38/40 New Cavendish St, W1G 8UD; caravane.co.uk When I want to indulge my inner chic Parisian apartment fantasies, I head here. The new store in Coal Drops Yard is a linen and cushion lovers’ paradise – as well as the full gamut of homewares – and I want all of it. TOP PICK Chosen by influencer Bianca Hall; @frenchforprineapple INTO MILLS WHERE: intomills.com Handpicked products from small suppliers and artisan studios. There are lots of affordable accessories, especially kitchenware. HOMEPLACE WHERE: homeplace.co.uk A brilliant collection of vintage, mid-century, retro and contemporary furniture, lighting and homeware sourced by Wendy Aldridge from…

THIS IS GOING TO HURT Adam Kay tells harrowing, hilarious and sometimes heartbreaking stories from his career as a junior doctor. Prepare to spend your evening in stitches. adamkay.co.uk; nationwide tour, including 7 Feb in Southend VALENTINE’S AT THE SAVOY The art-deco setting of Kaspar’s restaurant at The Savoy is so romantic, particularly with the special Valentine’s menu featuring oysters, lobster tail, black angus tenderloin and lychee panna cotta. thesavoylondon.com; 14 Feb PHOTOS: GETTY MUSCLE MEMORY EXHIBITION A collaboration between electronic musician Four Tet and feminist artist Anna Liber Lewis, Muscle Memory plays music that has been created in unison with the art. elephant.art.co.uk; until 17 March JIMOTHY LACOSTE Red trousers, dead-pan wit and bedroom pop; it can only be London’s new underground rapper, Jimothy Lacoste. Catch him on his…

BOOKS: ALEXANDRA HEMINSLEY. PODCASTS: HARRIET KEAN. PHOTO: GETTY IMAGES Love Stories Dolly Alderton’s brilliant podcast is back. The first episode sees Stanley Tucci talk candidly about his experiences of heartache and loss. About Race With Reni Eddo-Lodge Acclaimed author Reni Eddo-Lodge (Why I Am No Longer Talking To White People About Race) discusses racial politics, gender and the context of empire. No Such Thing As A Fish Researchers from QI (aka the QI elves) share fascinating discoveries of the week. Our favourite: the Dalai Lama is frightened of caterpillars. DOWNLOAD THE GRAZIA LIFE ADVICE PODCAST FOR BRILLIANT ADVICE FROM WOMEN WORTH LISTENING TO…

A CUT ABOVE Cool new collab INTRODUCING BASICS that are anything but, French brand Lemaire has joined forces with Sunspel for a capsule collection that emphasises beautiful fabrics and meticulous cuts. The shirt jackets and pyjama pants are a must. Sunspel: The Lemaire Collection, from £120, sunspel.com THE ONE STARRING Woody Woodpecker JANICE FROM FRIENDS’ voice is one of the most recognisable sounds of the ’90s, and now the actor who played her, Maggie Wheeler, has explained where it came from. ‘She’s a combination of [US sitcom character] Arnold Horshack, Flipper and Woody Woodpecker. I think Janice was some sort of conglomeration I invented on the day.’ And the reason? ‘Matthew Perry is so funny and I knew he was going to crack me up… I knew if Janice could…

PHOTOS: SHUTTERSTOCK, TWITTER/RICHARDEGRANT THERE’S SOMETHING rather reassuring about knowing celebrities get just as starstruck as the rest of us, isn’t there? We give you Richard E Grant, who went into meltdown last week after his icon, Barbra Streisand, finally replied to a fan letter he wrote to her when he was 14. The story started when Richard, now 61, excitably posted a selfie outside Barbra Streisand’s home in LA (where he had just arrived ahead of the Oscars next month), alongside a copy of the letter, which he wrote in the 1970s. In it, he said his family had been fans of hers since watching Funny Girl , released in 1968, and offered her a holiday in Swaziland, where he grew up. ‘I read in the paper that you were…

On the surface, it’s a great time to be female: girls are doing better at school, going to university in record numbers, and ‘male’ industries are actively recruiting more women. But according to new research from Oxford Brookes University, this won’t necessarily close the gender leadership gap. Dr Michele Paule and Dr Hannah Yelin have found that girls are being put off roles that involve being in the public eye because of the sexism and hostile scrutiny such women face, as well as ‘the risk of psychological and physical harm’. We need to act now to change the toxic environment our female leaders are subjected to. Otherwise, a generation of girls will be put off going for the top jobs.…

IT WAS THE PERFECT finale to a show-stopping two-week extravaganza, all conducted on the chic streets of Paris. The star of the show0? Celine Dion, who shone first at the couture shows – crowned ‘Paris Couture Week’s most adventurous’ by Vanity Fair – then parading the City of Light in a series of head-turning outfits, culminating in shimmering Balmain outside the Plaza Athenee Hotel, where she’d been filming her debut L’Oréal ad campaign. Never has there been a more appropriate time to have a bit – make that, a lot – of Celine in your life. I’m not surprised the world has finally caught up with Celine. I have been a fan since she won the Eurovision Song Contest for Switzerland in 1988, beating the UK by one point. (No,…

As a woman who is known to throw some of the most A-list celebrations in recent memory, Jennifer Aniston’s 50th will no doubt be a seriously good affair. Indeed, in August 2015, Jen managed to plan her wedding to Justin Theroux without the media or even her closest friends finding out, pretending instead that it was Justin’s 44th birthday party. Then, for their honeymoon in Bora Bora, she took the unconventional step of bringing along her high-profile friends, including Chelsea Handler, Courteney Cox and Jason Bateman,. For her 50th? As Grazia went to press last week, we were told that the actress was planning ‘a lavish party at Ellen DeGeneres’ and Portia de Rossi’s $15 million Beverly Hills home’ this weekend, ahead of her 11 February birthday. The guest list…

The definition of poverty in the UK, according to the Joseph Rowntree Foundation, is an income of less than £144 a week for a single person with no children, or £401 a week for a couple with two children aged between five and 14. One in five UK citizens live in poverty, including more than 4.5 million children. Child poverty levels are set to rise significantly over the next three years, according to the Institute for Fiscal Studies. The area with the highest rate of child poverty – 62% – is Coldhurst in Oldham, while the local authority dealing with the highest rate of child poverty is Tower Hamlets in London, with 53.4% of children growing up below the breadline. Someone from a black, Asian and minority ethnic (BAME) background…

BEYOND THE PALE (left): 1. Bra, £12, and pants, £6, TU (tuclothing.sainsburys.co.uk). 2. Pyjamas, £28, BLUEBELLA (figleaves.com). 3. Bra, £50, and pants, £37, LOVE STORIES (lovestoriesintimates.com). 4. Robe, £325, AGENT PROVOCATEUR (flannels.com). 5. Bra, £42, and thong, £10, ASOS (asos.com). 6. Bra, £270, and pants, £190, ERES (eresparis.com). 7. Pyjamas, £140, EBERJEY (selfridges.com). 8. Necklace, £125, MISSOMA (missoma.com). HER DARK MATERIALS (this page): 9. Pyjamas, £17.99, H&M (hm.com). 10. Bra, £7, and pants, £3, GEORGE (direct.asda.com). 11. Bra, £36, and pants, £22, TRIUMPH (uk.triumph.com). 12. Bra, £36, and pants, £15, BOUX AVENUE (bouxavenue.com). 13. Pyjama jacket, £58, and trousers, £47, INTIMISSIMI (uk.intimissimi.com). 14. Slip, £52.60, VICTORIA’S SECRET (victoriassecret.com). 15. Bra, £14, and pants, £7, NEXT (next.co.uk). 16. Earrings, £60, KATE SPADE (katespade.co.uk). 17. Bra, £22, and pants, £14, SIMPLY BE…

LEAVE THIS PAGE STRATEGICALLY OPEN BEFORE 14 FEB AND HOPEFULLY THEY’LL TAKE NOTE… HOT TIPS From a little shimmer (Crush & Blush) to a lot of sparkle (You’re So Cupid), Essie Gallentine Collection (7), £7.99 each, ups the nail ante. PHOTOS: GIANANDREA TRAINA. CHRISTIAN LOUBOUTIN: CHRISTIANLOUBOUTIN.COM. ELEMIS: ELEMIS.COM. ESSIE: BOOTS.COM. GIVENCHY: DEBENHAMS.COM. L’OCCITANE: LOCCITANE.CO.UK. LOVE, BEAUTY & PLANET: LOVEBEAUTYANDPLANET.COM. LIME CRIME: SELFRIDGES.COM. OVEROSE: CULTBEAUTY.CO.UK. SLIP: SLIPSILKPILLOWCASE.COM. YSL: YSLBEAUTY.CO.UK SWEET DREAMS Ideal for cat-nappers, give the gift of great sleep with a Slip Silk Eye Mask (1), £45. COMING UP ROSES Perfect for protecting skin in the cold snap, Love, Beauty & Planet Rose Body Lotion (2), £8.99, hydrates like a hero. PERFECT PAIR Lips and nails that match are classically chic, so Christian Louboutin’s two-piece Loubivalentine Coffret Rouge gift set,…

The lunch pot This Black & Blum upright Lunch Pot has two stacked containers, so you can also take dessert, snacks or a salad dressing, too. £19.95; black-blum.com The reusable ‘non-plastic’ bag The Stasher is a clever invention – a reusable silicone airtight bag for keeping food and snacks fresh. From £12.99; littlegreenhome.co.uk The collapsible water bottle PHOTOS: STOCKSY Fill up the Que Collapsible water bottle, then squash it down to stash in your handbag. Genius. £25; bearandbear.com…

SHREDDED CRISPY CHICKEN WITH BLACK PEPPER AND SALT Serves 2 INGREDIENTS ½ tbsp salt ½ tbsp Chinese five-spice powder ½ tbsp freshly ground black pepper 1 tbsp groundnut oil, plus extra for deep-frying 2 chicken breast fillets, cut into thin strips 50g cornflour 1 egg 1 small onion, cut into strips ½ green pepper, deseeded and cut into strips 2 garlic cloves, crushed 2 tbsp water 1 tsp sesame oil METHOD  1 Mix the salt, five-spice powder and black pepper together in a small bowl and set aside. 2 In a wok or deep saucepan, add enough groundnut oil to deep-fry the chicken and heat to 180°C. Coat each piece of chicken with the cornflour in a bowl and shake off the excess. In another bowl, beat the egg. Dip…

In At The Deep End Kate Davies (£12.99, BOROUGH PRESS) Being properly saucy while having a huge heart is something most of us aspire to, but Julia makes it look effortless. Initially she seems like a classic chick-lit heroine: bored at work, annoyed by her flatmates, having shit dates. Then she falls in love – with a woman. But not just any woman; someone who sees sex as a hobby and monogamy as tedium. Fleabag- level dirty jokes, Eleanor Oliphant-levels of empathy and a lead character who’s like your best mate spilling the gossip after a few glasses. Fresh, funny and filthy.…

AN UNCIVILISED confession. Prior to watching the TV sequel to the 1981 Nazi submarine thriller Das Boot, I knew precisely nothing of the original. The name rang a vague bell, one of those films that would appear on lists of all-time classics, snuggled up next to some interminable prose about Orson Welles. There it would remain. Frankly, until Tom Hardy and Harry Styles were cast in Dunkirk, and with the honourable, tear-stained exception of Schindler’s List, the world war epic remained my screen blind-spot, a genre untapped. As it turned out, this is very much my bad. Das Boot has been reconfigured in a spendy and luxurious TV remake, filmed in France, Bavaria and Malta, with international teams working across three indigenous languages (an English cast creeps in at the…

TURNIPS IN A TWIST Hilarious to be comparing Polly Vernon to Piers Morgan, but they’re both pretty wound up by vegans, aren’t they? Meanwhile, we vegans are just living our lives the kindest way we can. Polly, maybe the woman who specified her veganism in the flatshare ad did it so that vegan households looking for extra members would know she wouldn’t be cooking huge pieces of meat in their kitchen. Which is fair enough, isn’t it? Aren’t people allowed to have preferences like that? Audrey DIVISION OF LABOUR OMG, I can’t tell you how much Ever wondered why you’re always knackered and your partner isn’t (28 Jan) resonated with me. Like Rob, my husband is helpful and will do any job – when asked – but he thinks I’m…

PHOTOS: GETTY, INSTAGRAM/SUNNI_GEEKY_PT, WENN 1 NEW IN MEN IN HARNESSES See Michael B Jordan at the SAG awards, in a Vuitton bib/ harness-like flourish. Also, see Timothée Chalamet, who did it first. 2. UP MONICA LEWINSKY As seen on The Clinton Affair (More 4). Sweet, straight, articulate, utterly lacking in self-pity, esp. charming when describing the early days of her doomed crush on Bill Clinton. 3. NON-MOVER THE ROCK AND DAUGHTER Excellent Sundance red carpet turn from last week. Dwayne wore a black polo neck and a smile, Simone (daughter of The Rock) wore knee boots over jeans. 4. NEW IN SUNNI TORGMAN Boxer, personal trainer, and, as of last week: officially London’s Strongest Woman under 63 kilos. She can pull buses. And she’s the other kind of fit. Both…

LAST WEEK BROUGHT us the winner of least surprising headline of the year/millennium – ‘Working mothers are 40% more stressed’ than anyone else. No kidding. As I write this, my four-month-old is crying through the monitor and my four-year-old is ransacking the cupboard next to me, searching for a colouring book that has ‘pictures of people with legs’. (It seems we have finally reached ‘peak mermaid’ in this house.) Meanwhile, my six-year-old daughter is asking to read what I’m writing and, because I’m reluctant to break the news that being a working mum can sometimes be a whole shit-heap of stress, I tell her it’s just a silly story and shut my laptop. Oh, the irony. Academics at Essex University have examined the biological data of more than 6,000 women…

PHOTOS: GETTY HAVE YOU SEEN The Favourite yet? If you have, by now you’re no doubt beginning to think that racing lobsters looks like a hoot, indulging in Machiavellian scheming is a good idea, and worrying that your eye make-up makes you look like a badger. But, more than anything, you’re probably still swooning over the excellent Sandy Powell-designed monochrome costumes that Olivia Colman, Rachel Weisz and Emma Stone inhabit during the brutal, bawdy comedy. If you are, you’re in good company. The A-list is also going loco for rococo. At the Sundance Film Festival last week, FKA twigs eschewed the predictably pretty dresses of her contemporaries for a vintage Jean Paul Gaultier coat and a Vivienne Westwood Archive corset from the designer’s 1990 Gold Label collection, Portrait, printed…

IF JENNIFER ANISTON had embarked on the #10YearChallenge, it would have been less of an exercise in cringe-LOLs and more of a game of spot the difference. Because despite a life in the spotlight, when it comes to getting dressed, Jen has remained immune to flash-in-the-pan trends and the relentless pursuit of newness, and instead mastered a sleek signature style that looks as good at 50 as it did at 25. Jen is the quintessential West Coast girl, as Californian as kale, Moon Juice and medical marijuana, and her effortlessly elegant style reflects that. For day, her look is all about boyfriend denim, some variation of a white tee or vest, a tailored blazer and a discreet but high-end handbag (jeans + designer bag = the Cali girl’s official uniform).…

PHOTO (POSED BY MODEL): STOCKSY ‘WHY DON’T YOU write letters to one another?’ laments my dad whenever talking about the dating landscape for his 20- and 30-something children. ‘We always wrote letters to one another, much more romantic.’ Perhaps, but it’s 2019, Pops, not 1919, so we have to make do with dating apps, aubergine emojis and wondering how many kisses to put at the end of a message. Is one small kiss too curt? If you put three big kisses does that imply you want to marry them? It’s a confusing jungle out there these days, so here are a few rules to help along the way... 1. Either text someone back or stop engaging. Our phones are never more than three feet away from us, whether awake, asleep…

PHOTOS: ©TERRY GROVE, CATWALKING.COM, GETTY, ©TYRONE LEBON, CAPITAL.ALEXANDER MCQUEEN: 27 OLD BOND ST. DRESS PORTRAIT: MOLLY GODDARD AND SARAH EDWARDS, NOW UNTIL 1 MAR,CHELSEA SPACE. FARFETCH X BALENCIAGA: FARFETCH.COM. ALL ABOUT EVE: NOW UNTIL 11 MAY, NOËL COWARD THEATRE Immerse yourself in the world of Alexander McQueen. The brand’s new London flagship has a space dedicated to exhibitions and talks. Dream of Italian summers. Daniel Lee’s debut Bottega Veneta campaign is shot on Ischia. Fantasy island… Keep it in the family. A new exhibition features photographs of Molly Goddard dresses taken by her mother, Sarah Edwards. Fash up your household. Balenciaga’s new Farfetch capsule includes womenswear, menswear and childrenswear Ditch the dress. Trousers make a modern statement after dark. Fasten your seatbelts! As it makes its West End arrival, rewatch…

GOGGLES, SWIM HATS and a swimming costume that doesn’t fit properly – that is no doubt your resounding memory of swimming lessons at school. But think again – swimming and water-based exercise is having a renaissance and it’s doing wonders for our physical and mental health. A huge 13.2 million of us now swim monthly and it can only be a good thing, as it brings a wealth of health benefits. As well as lowering blood pressure and stress levels, boosting lung capacity and improving sleep, the buoyancy of water (the body carries half its weight when immersed only to the waist) means physical pain from stiff joints, injuries or even weak bones is alleviated, making it an obvious choice for all ages, fitness levels and abilities. ‘What those who…

‘EMBRACING MY CURLS HAS BEEN LIBERATING’ AS I ENTER the top floor of a hip East London studio, I’m greeted by the whirl of the photographer’s camera clicking and, next to a wind machine, a dedicated hairstylist giving Rochelle Humes’s curls the Beyoncé treatment. We’re here to chat about those curls – or, more specifically, Rochelle’s debut children’s book, The Mega Magic Hair Swap, which is all about accepting, loving and celebrating curly hair. The book certainly moved me. As the mother of mixed-heritage seven-year-old twin daughters, I’ve battled hard to boost the self-love of my girls who, from as young as three, have questioned why they don’t have ‘normal’ straight yellow hair like Elsa from Disney’s Frozen. ‘In this social media world we live in, it’s really easy to…

PHOTO: INSTAGRAM/ITSNEDKELLY GO EAT READ WATCH FIND Sawtell, New South Wales A long and beautiful beach is just one of the attractions of this chic seaside village in New South Wales, Australia – five hours north of Sydney. Stretching back from the golden sands is First Avenue, lined with cafés, restaurants, shops, an original art deco cinema and The Sawtell Hotel – a lively pub and restaurant that’s the perfect place to enjoy fresh seafood and a glass or two of chilled Aussie wine.…

Blood Orange Harriet Tyce (£12.99, WILDFIRE) A thriller with a pleasingly flawed woman at its heart: Alison isn’t just a high-powered defence lawyer, but one with a potentially lying client, an all-consuming affair and not enough time to keep all her secrets. You’ll start off reading this for the murder trial plot and end up hooked to find out if Alison is going to survive. The Familiars Stacey Halls (£12.99, ZAFFRE) Fleetwood Shuttleworth, an aristocratic teenage wife who is desperate to save her fourth pregnancy, finds Alice Grey, a midwife who promises to help her carry a healthy baby at last. Except this is the 17th century and Alice is embroiled in a witch trial. Should Fleetwood help her or fear her? The Age Of Light Whitney Scharer (£12.99, PICADOR)…

GLASS HALF-FULL Reading Ruby Warrington’s article, ‘You can never have a heathy relationship with alcohol’ (28 Jan) was frustrating. Ruby assumes that everyone who drinks but doesn’t consider giving up alcohol is in denial about underlying issues, and similarly seems to suggest that the majority who drink do so to feel more confident or because they have an emotional dependence on alcohol. She doesn’t take into account the many people who try to live in moderation without over-analysing and having anxieties over every decision, including whether or not to enjoy a glass of wine without presuming it is the manifestation of a physiological crutch. Don’t generalise when it comes to alcohol – not everything needs a label. Emma…