Table of contents for 9/11/2019 in Move!

EDUCATION, we all know, is the key to a successful future. But we also know that it is not cheap to get into a tertiary institution. Luckily there are bursaries available to those who work hard and display talent and they can make a real difference in the lives of deserving students. We did some research to find the best bursaries out there, in different fields like science, arts, engineering, business management, teaching, law and medicine. We give you details about when to apply and where to apply so that you can have your best chance of getting one. Turn to page 24 to see if there’s one that you can apply for or if there’s one you can recommend to someone who needs it. And hold on to this…

Gospel singer Swazi Dlamini was one of those who supported the controversial Pastor Shepherd Bushiri at his court appearance. She’s never shied away from her support of him. Move! readers have their say: Hypnotised. You must stand by the truth. Don’t be biased. Stand by the Word of God. – STAN THABI Welcome to Mzansi where women trust their pastors more than their husbands. – CALVIN MANGANYI People lease their brains and will to the cult leader and become sheepish. – SONGEZO MCAPUKISI That means nothing. Even intelligent people do stupid things once in a while. – MAKGOLA LEHONG Daughter of Major prophet. Let’s keep on standing with our prophet. – ROFHIWA TSHIGOMANA No wonder her career is slowly fading away. – PALESA MOTSOENENG What a shame. – EMILY MONYEKI…

The kind of club account Gumbi Boys Social Club has doesn’t allow them to send money to members who bank with different banks. This can be an inconvenience, frustrating and dangerous for the affected members. The issue of going to the bank and giving members a lump sum in cash is unsafe and unnecessary in this day and age. USEFUL SOLUTIONS The club has been in existence for eight years and many members have been part of it since its inception. By now everyone should have bank accounts with the same bank as the club. This shows dedication to the club and makes life easier for everyone. It’s also not a bad idea for Gumbi Boys’ members to visit their banks and see how they can improve the current services…

SHE calls herself the “Musical Einstein” and has been known to spin the decks without headphones, something seen as an oddity in her field. For as long as she can remember, DJ LeSoul (28), real name Nonkululeko Mdlalose, has loved music. She was born and raised in Kwa­Mashu, KwaZulu-Natal, and spent a great deal of time in church. It’s also where she learnt to play the piano. “I experimented with other instruments, but the piano was so intriguing, so I pretty much taught myself how to use it, and I’m trying to teach myself how to play the bass guitar based on the little knowledge I acquired back then,” she says. THE AHA MOMENT When she was 18, she was sure she wanted a career in music. “I did not…

IT’S a proud moment for many parents: seeing their kids finishing high school and moving on to university. With a good degree under their belts, they’ll surely be set for life. But this dream can sometimes come at a hefty price. Tuition fees, accommodation, textbooks – they all add up. For cash-strapped parents this can present a major headache but thankfully there are many ways to lighten the financial burden, especially if your child has worked hard at school and has good grades to show for it. We give you a rundown of some of the bursaries available to South African learners. HUMANITIES Bursary National Arts Council of South Africa Area of study Dance, theatre, music, visual arts, craft and literature Deadline 12 September 2019 The catch You must be…

ONE-LINERS ■ 99% of lawyers give the rest a bad name. ■ A conscience is what hurts when all your other parts feel so good. ■ I almost had a psychic girlfriend but she left me before we met. ■ How do you tell when you’re out of invisible ink? ■ If everything seems to be going well, you have obviously overlooked something. ■ 42,7% of all statistics are made up on the spot. NOTHING TO WRITE HOME ABOUT When Nasa starts sending American astronauts to space, they quickly discover ballpoint pens don’t work in zero gravity. To combat the problem, the United States government spends a decade and billions of dollars for Nasa scientists to develop a pen that can write in zero gravity, upside down and at temperatures…

‘YOUR FORMER EMPLOYER IS NOT OBLIGED TO TAKE YOU BACK’ Q TITLE DEED NOT ISSUED My aunt, who is a pensioner, purchased an RDP house in 2005 from a lady in our home town. They went to the local police station where they made an affidavit stating she was giving it to my aunt because she already had a house that was left to her by her late parents. They also went to the local municipal office to let the councillor know of the agreement. The councillor acknowledged the change and stipulated that the deed would be put in my aunt’s name. But the title deeds have not been published yet due to municipal delays. Kindly advise as to what my aunt can do to officially register this house in…

■ Cipla 24-hour mental-health helpline – 0800-456-789 ■ Pharmadynamics police and trauma line – 0800-205-026 ■ Adcock Ingram depression and anxiety helpline – 0800-708-090 ■ Destiny helpline for youth and students – 0800-414-243 ■ Department of social development 24-hour substance abuse helpline – 0800-121-314. SMS 32312. ■ Suicide crisis line – 0800-567-567 ■ Sadag mental-health line – 011-234-4837 ■ Akeso 24-hour psychiatric response unit – 0861-435-787…

APPLICATIONS for 2020 close soon at most tertiary institutions, which means matriculants have to decide what they’re going to do with the rest of their lives. And choosing a career is far more complicated than it used to be. Firstly, because of technological advances, several job options may be obsolete in a few years, says David Casey, director of the University of Cape Town’s Careers Service. “Predicting future employment trends is difficult, as everything is changing so rapidly.” Secondly, preparing for one career no longer necessarily means you’ll be doing that job until you retire. You should rather approach today’s far more mobile career market with an eye to ongoing career development, advises Ewald Crause, a psychologist who specialises in career guidance. Thirdly, many people are under pressure to create…

IT’S easy in the chaos of life to lose sight of our purpose. God created us on purpose and for a purpose. Our primary aim is to bring Him glory and show His love to the world. In Ephesians 4: 1-3 it says, “As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received. Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the spirit through the bond of peace”. BE HUMBLE We must put on humility but this doesn’t mean we must fake it. It isn’t easy to be humble, but it’s possible. Listen to others and while you are listening, try to not think of the…

1 Your guy has a problem at work that is constantly on his mind. How would he deal with it? A Talk it over with you, and ask your opinion. B Be silent, and withdrawn and work it out on his own. C) Meet up with his friends and ask their advice. 2 When buying a CD as a gift for your guy, do you think you’d choose one he really liked? A Yes, you’re fully aware of his taste in music. B You’re certain he would share your choice - you’d buy a disc you’d enjoy. C) No, he enjoys such a wide and varied music spectrum that you wouldn’t really know what he liked. 3 When your guy is annoyed by something you did, how does he react?…

Don’t give out private information, such as your ID number, physical address and banking details to strangers. If you decide to meet, do so in a public place. Also, tell a friend where you are going and when you expect to be back. Don’t do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Always trust your instincts. Don’t assume that the person is who they say they are. It’s easy to pretend or provide false information over the phone or online. DISCLAIMER: Move! magazine will not be held responsible/liable for anything that may arise with regard to readers providing each other with personal information. We advise participants to protect themselves from any criminal intent/activity.…

DON’T GIVE UP A wise man once said: “If everyone sweeps the front of his gate, the whole street will be clean.” Let it be known that the socioeconomic challenges we currently face should not push us to getting wasted in the form of abusing alcohol and taking drugs. It simply means we should sit down and chart away forward on how best we can defeat these challenges. As opposed to the youth of 1976, our struggle is not poor education, but social challenges such as unemployment, child abuse, HIV, drug and alcohol abuse. The million dollar question therefore is: what are we doing as the youth of today in dealing with these societal challenges that seem to be flushing our lives down the drain? ‘LET US COME UP WITH…

SHOPPING, booking holidays, watching movies and banking – can all now be done at the click of a button. Just two decades ago cell phones were a luxury even viewed to be a thing for the rich. Now times have changed, and cell phones are a necessity and everything we do is connected to them. Entrepreneurs have taken advantage of technology to advance their businesses and, so should stokvels. SOCIAL MEDIA Social media is often viewed as a platform for entertainment and in recent years, a platform for people to bring their issues and complaints forward. There is, however, another important purpose for social media – business development. PR and Marketing Specialist Kabelo Ngobese encourages stokvels to take advantage of social media to improve the running of the clubs. “Start…

SHE’S the most annoying woman on South African TV right now. Often seen as the mother-in-law no one would wish on their worst enemy, she’s overbearing and controlling. Brenda Mhlongo is so good at being a bad in-law that she even has fans wishing they could beat her up when she’s out in public. She’s been playing Ntombizodwa Khoza on Mzansi Magic’s action-packed The Queen for two months and in the short space of time she’s made enough enemies to last a lifetime. She shocks viewers all day long with her antics, trying to control her son Shaka’s relationship with the mother of his child, Mmabatho. Ntombizodwa even shocks Brenda sometimes, the actress shares. “The scene where I slap Mmabatho [Motsoaledi Setumo] made me uncomfortable. I like her so much.…

HE TOOK the music industry by storm with his single Nalingi. Now he's launched his new EP, Young African Story, and Manu WorldStar says it’s happening how he imagined it would five years ago. We spoke to the South African-born Congolese hip-hop artist at his listening session in Illovo Junction, Joburg, where he expressed gratitude to those who supported him. He was joined by celebrities like Gigi LaMayne and Rouge. YFM’s Khutso Theledi was teh MC and the honorary guests were Manu’s parents.…

PUFF SLEEVES Cute and playful, add fun to your look with this style. TIP Puff sleeves accentuate your bust so choose open-necked items to make the most of it. FLARED SLEEVES This shorter style is perfect for warmer weather as it creates a fun, summer look. TIP Flared sleeves look great with prints so choose floral or animal designs. PEASANT SLEEVES Gathered with an elastic at the cuff, this cut will add a boho, carefree feel to your outfit. TIP This cuff looks even more chic when paired with sophisticated prints and colours. BELL SLEEVES Soft and elegant, these sleeves add a feminine touch. TIP Feminine prints and soft textures suit bell sleeves so choose items in floral prints and lace. STOCKITSEDGARS 0800-203-925; FOSCHINI 0860-104-764; MRP 0800-212-535;THE FIX 0860-104-764; TRUWORTHS…

CLASSIC COTTAGE/ SHEPHERD’S PIE The difference between the two is the meat filling – beef mince is usually used in cottage pie, whereas shepherd’s pie uses meat pieces (mostly lamb). SERVES 6 PREPARATION: 20 MIN COOKING: 4 HR FOR SHEPHERD’S PIE AND 40 MIN FOR COTTAGE PIE BAKING: 15-20 MIN FILLING ■ 1-2kg lamb shoulder, on the bone OR 1kg beef mince ■ 60ml (¼c) olive oil ■ salt and pepper ■ 60ml (¼c) water ■ 10ml (2t) olive oil ■ 200g streaky bacon, chopped ■ 1 onion, chopped ■ 2 medium carrots, chopped ■ 2 celery stalks, finely diced ■ 125ml (½c) dry red wine ■ 15ml (1T) flour ■ 30ml (2T) tomato paste ■ 10ml (2t) chopped fresh thyme ■ 10ml (2t) dried oregano ■ 2 bay leaves…

SHE has a gift that often leaves viewers amazed at how she is able to see the past, present and future of whoever she is in conversation with. She could be walking down the street, doing her nails or at a social gathering and she could share revelations about a stranger’s life. Her name is Mpho Entle, whose name directly translates to ‘a beautiful gift’, and she is apsychic medium on Umoya, a TV show on Moja Love DStv channel 157. THE GIFT On the show, Mpho helps people connect with their departed loved ones. In her communication with the loved ones who’ve passed on, she’s often able to reassure the living and explain to them how or why their lives are the way they are. This kind of reality…

‘YOUR ENTIRE BODY, FROM YOUR HAIR TO YOUR TOES, IS A SEX ORGAN’ Q HOW MUCH INTERCOURSE IS TOO MUCH? I think I have a big problem and I need your help. I’m addicted to sex and my wife is complaining because I need it every day. What can I do? How much is too much? WORRIED, EMAIL A Sex addiction has signs and symptoms that are common with other addictions. Some common signs include sex being the primary thing you want to do - regardless of any other responsibilities you might have. This means you’re unable to control your behaviour. It’s classified or diagnosed as a disease when the person involved displays uncontrollable urges to watch pornography, masturbate and think about sex all the time in an unhealthy manner.…

Mandisa Muruge, a counsellor at The Family Life Centre’s Lenasia South office, says: “Your family and friends can’t choose who you must fall in love with. The most amazing and beautiful thing about love is that the heart doesn’t choose the rich, the educated, the famous and so forth. The heart chooses the person it loves. “Don’t you think the world would be a happier place if we chose our own life partners without being pressurised by family, friends and society? If we allowed our hearts to be free to love who we want to love? Without judgment from other people? “Maybe the security guard feels the same way as you do about him. The only way to find out is to communicate with him, tell him how you really…

I recently met a handsome guy who’s in a wheelchair, and he’s asked me out. I kind of like him but I have fears about dating him. I’ve never dated anyone with a disability so I think it could be slightly different. I’m afraid there will be challenges in our sex life and our quality of life. Will he be able to go out dancing with me and be comfortable in other social settings? I’m worried if I don’t invite him to some activities then I would be excluding him, and if I invite him what will happen if there are challenges and I seem insensitive? Could you give me tips on the things that I need to be aware of when dating a person with a disability? CONCERNED DATING…

■ Career advisers at many tertiary institutions use the South African website gostudy.net. “It provides information on thousands of careers, what they entail, typical employment opportunities, what qualifications you need and where you can get them, entry requirements as well as bursaries,” says Marelize van der Merwe, an industrial psychologist at North-West University’s Centre for Student Counselling and Development. ■ Careers Unlimited (careers-unlimited.co.za) publishes a digital career advice booklet every year. ■ For the department of higher education and training’s annual (long) list of careers with a high demand for candidates, go to careerhelp.org.za. Search for “list of occupations in high demand”.…

READY TO SETTLE DOWN I’m a 23-year-old woman from Limpopo. Idon’t have any children. I’m looking for a loving and caring man between the ages of 25 and 30, preferably without children or at least with only one. He must be a God-fearing man and be ready to settle down. If interested, please WhatsApp me on: 076-987-9551 MATURED MAN I’m a 30-year-old lady from Swaziland. I’m looking for an independent and matured man who’s ready to settle down. He must be between the ages of 40 and 60. Please WhatsApp me on: +268-781-1947 SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP I’m a 34-year-old man from Mpumalanga. I’m looking for a lady who wants a serious relationship. She must be working, with or without kids. If interested, please WhatsApp me on: 073-796-7596 LOVING AND CARING I’m…

A FEW friends got together to celebrate Khanyisile Setwaba’s 34th birthday. Organised by Vumi Ndaba, Khanyisile’s work buddy, the fun day brought the birthday girl’s work and home besties together. They celebrated with a day of hiking and pampering – with champagne, of course. Vumi planned the get-together because she believes they all deserved a little time out.…

IT’S been a long time coming. Viewers have been waiting for months for this wedding, which has gone from a small affair to a spectacle. All because the groom, who quickly turned into a groomzilla, doesn’t believe in letting inflation stand in the way of his grand dreams. But finally Generations: The Legacy’s Lucy Diale (Manaka Ranaka) and her long-time super-dramatic boyfriend, Mrekza (Kope Makgae), are tying the knot in front of their family and friends. While the bride would have been happy with a simple, intimate wedding, the attention-seeking Mrekza wanted a red carpet, live band, fresh flowers and a celebrity chef, among other things. As a token of her enduring love for him, Lucy let her husband have his dream wedding. Move! gets a peek at the drama.…

HE had an average South African upbringing but he’s learnt to make the most of every opportunity that comes his way. Now actor Sipho Mdingi (24) is enjoying the spotlight with his first credited TV role on Mzansi Magic’s Impilo: The Scam. BREAKTHROUGH IN THE INDUSTRY The acting bug bit Sipho back in high school when he got involved in a school project that allowed him the opportunity to perform at the Joburg Theatre. In 2008 he joined a local community group, Born Talented Projects, that led to more performances on theatre stages. Getting the role as 18-year-old Mnqobi on Impilo: The Scam gave him the affirmation that he needed to know that he’s got what it takes to become a TV star. His character on the show is a…

1 American singer H.E.R. wore a .. . as an accessory at the recent MTV Video Music Awards? A Scarf B Crown C Parrot D Python 2 Which Hindu god is depicted with the head of an elephant . . .? A Krishna B Shiver C Ganesha D Vishnu 3 Where would you find the Sea of Tranquility? A The Arctic Circle B The Moon C The Mediterranean Basin D The Caribbean 4 Trevor Noah, Forbes’ fourth-highest-earning comedian in the world, made a staggering . . . this past year? A R430 million B R10m C R100m D R1 billion 5 . . . is the study and art of choosing, cooking and eating good food? A Culinary arts B Gastronomy C Viticulture D Cuisine 6 The entire African continent…

Q HOW CAN I WEAR STOCKINGS IN SUMMER? A It’s almost the end of winter, and now is the best time to chat about how to wear stockings in summer. Personally, I would say you can ditch them completely, but I know some of you must wear them as part of your uniform or business attire. Put them in your freezer! Yes, you’re reading that right. Put your stockings in there for a minute or two while you’re getting dressed. This will at least give you a brief respite on your way to work! Another option is to put them in your handbag, and only put them on when you get to work. Or you can skip the full pantyhose altogether and wear thigh-highs instead. They work very well too!…

I have been in a relationship with a guy for six months. He is amazing in many ways and Ilove him. I can see that he wants a relationship that ends in marriage with kids. We have been using protection during love-making but I’m hiding a secret: I’m HIV-positive. I am afraid of telling him my status because I fear losing him. What must I do? STRESSED LOVE is a beautiful thing that we all yearn for. However, we also need to be realistic. There are factors that we need to objectively look at even though it may be a bitter pill that’s hard to swallow. These factors include: ‘IT IS NOT JUST ABOUT YOU, IT’S ABOUT HIM TOO’ ■ Lack of understanding. Even though HIV has been around and…

‘I’M SO SHY I CAN’T MAKE FRIENDS. HOW CAN I GET OVER MY SHYNESS?’ Q PAINFULLY SHY I’m so shy - I can’t make friends at work or even at home. I go to church, to work and then home. The only other time I go out is when I must go to the shops to buy groceries. I’m feeling very alone and I don’t like it. How can I get rid of this shyness? ZIPHO, KWAZULU-NATAL A There may be several reasons why you are shy. It’s important to reflect as far back as your childhood to see if you’ve always been like this or if this is a sudden change in behaviour. If you’ve always been a shy a person, learning social skills may help. However, if you…

ZOTHANDO NTENTULE Tell this man what you really feel. Communication fixes a lot of misunderstandings without hurting feelings. It is not a challenge, he is just disabled. And not everybody can dance, disabled or not. Love conquers everything. FREDA MOAVODI You are already making assumptions about the future. Why are you letting his disability define your heart, your love for him? I hear you talking about you, but maybe you should consider asking him how he feels about his disability? ALPHYMO KOOLKAY Who said people with disabilities can’t do anything? You might even be surprised during sex. Love one another and stop thinking about unnecessary things. If you can’t love him back, tell him so he can move on.…

1 How much is the bonus? It depends on the discounts negotiated with retailers. It varies between organisations and suppliers, but it’s usually between 2% and 5% of what you’ve spent. 2 Does it apply to national chains only? No. Each organisation also negotiates discounts for members with regional concerns, such as grocers, vets, pharmacies and liquor stores. 3 What else do they offer? They usually also offer services such as budget facilities, funeral cover, vehicle finance and personal loans – but first check if the interest rate is favourable. 4 What are the membership requirements? Usually, there’s a certain minimum income; a clean credit record; a copy of your spouse’s ID, if you’re married in community of property; and proof of income. 5 Is my annual bonus taxable? Fortunately,…