Bethenny Frankel has, quite literally, been living in fear. While fighting for full custody of 8-year-old daughter Bryn, the star recently testified that her ex-husband Jason Hoppy allegedly abused her after they separated in late 2012. “Emotional, mental, phone, FaceTime, email, being followed, being harassed, being verbally attacked, an all-out assault in every possible way,” revealed the Real Housewives of New York City cast member, 48, who compared sharing a home with her ex to a “torture chamber” in court. “I felt hopeless and helpless. I had no way out. I knew I was being abused. Jason would say ‘You are so desperate and pathetic.’ He would say I looked ugly and old. There was a more threatening event at [our daughter’s] schoolyard.” Indeed, in 2017, the 48-year-old businessman was…