If you must say something, make it loving and beautiful and accurate; unless you’re making up a story for a child, in which case make it wild and wonderful and full of mystery, myth and energy.
If you must say something, try to be affirming with the knowledge that everything you say exposes your inner world since we love, see and speak to a world not as it is, but as we are.
If you must say something, try to avoid “you need”, and “you must”, and “you ought” when addressing adults as if you’re more qualified at life than they are. Yes, of course it’s okay to recommend things, but you know full well when suggestions dress up as manipulations.
If you must say something, before it leaves…