Alot of people assume that it’s women who try to avoid sleeping with their husbands – and, of course, we all like having a laugh at the old ‘not tonight, dear’ cliché.
But, if you were in my situation, you wouldn’t be smiling.
You see, my husband and I have been struggling to have sex for eight long years.
I’ve been sympathetic, and we’re doing the best we can to make our marriage work, but I can’t deny that it’s been tough.
Philip, 43, and I met in our 20s, and were friends to begin with, until 2000, when we realised that there was more to our relationship.
He was clever, funny and extremely thoughtful and, once we became a couple, life was fantastic. We became intimate and had an…
