LETTERS
Eros and Villains Milan Kundera once said that all great love stories begin and end outside of consummation. Agnes Callard seems to agree, though with a less romantic sentiment [“The Eros Monster,” Essay, March]. Callard’s story of an “all chase” affair is a treatise on eros as a corrosive to independent thought. During her relationship, Callard flipped between deep love and searing hatred, which, she writes, is “exactly what happens when eros becomes a trap.” During my own extramarital affair, I was possessed by a similar recklessness. I take issue, however, with Callard’s implication that eros is necessarily intertwined with hate. Of course, there are plenty of examples which support her interpretation. Though Freud posited Eros as embodying the drive to live—the opposite of Thanatos, the drive to self-destruct—many couples have embodied…