Make Room
ONE OF THE BEAUTIFUL THINGS about growing older (and hopefully wiser) is you get the chance to perfect your approach to New Year’s resolutions—or anti-resolutions, as the case may be. And by perfect, I mean do away with all intentions that pursue daily, absolute perfection. This includes resolutions that involve the word every, such as “I will wake up every weekday morning at five a.m. to hit the gym,” as well as grand pronouncements about things you will never do (say, drink wine on weeknights) or will always do (go to bed before 10 p.m.). In my experience, these are surefire strategies for total failure by January 15. Instead, I think of this as a time to reassess what’s working—and what isn’t. And the conclusion I come to isn’t to cram…